A Woman's Decision

Beginning with today's post, I'm taking a break. There are a lot of things going on in my life, just like all of you. It may be a week, two weeks or a month. We'll see what happens. I just need to get some things done I've been putting off for a long time. But I truly thank all of you who follow and/or read my blog.
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Several weeks ago, we all read about Angelina Jolie having her breasts removed. I'm not fond of her, but I salute her decision to take a very pro-active stance on her body. I'd do the same thing. In fact, I did many years ago.

I'll not go into the details as it's very personal and it wasn't cancer but I made a decision for health reasons and would do it again in a heartbeat. Breasts are not the be all/end all to some women or men. I doubt seriously that many men, and I do mean men, not the narcissistic idiots that come out of Hollywood, marry women for their breasts. I know my hubby didn't. I've talked on this matter before on one of my blog posts. Some women are identified by their chests; I'm not one of them. Be happy with what you have. There are health risks to women with larger breasts. There are also other considerations with that also. I chose to do what I did and was extremely happy with the results.

But I'm glad it was brought to the forefront for women. Don't be afraid to take a pro-active stand on your health matters. Listen to your doctor but make your own decision. He'll inform you but he shouldn't be the one to make a decision for your own body. I'm certainly glad Miss Jolie did what she did so she wouldn't leave her children without a mother. Children need their mothers as much as they need their fathers. Wise decision, in my opinion.
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A very colorful entrance to an adorable place somewhere in Europe. France and Italy are pretty similar in their homes, all very lovely and fascinating architecture. This is a darling place though.


I love gorgeous arrays of pillows as art. I'm thinking of having Love Bunny make me shelves for the family room to display pillows I've made. I need to make more room in my office, where most of them are stored, and in my craft room. I'll be cleaning that out soon. Yeah, yeah, I know, you're heard that before, but this time I mean it as it's getting seriously trashed in there.


Another exceptional place for an al fresco dinner.


A stunning bunch of lavender. I'm not fond of the smell but its medicinal value is wonderful for burns.


An array of vintage hats. How wonderful that this owner was able to get so many with flowers on them.


I'd love to have this small vase. I know exactly where I'd use it.


I love impatiens for their strikingly vivid colors.


Don't we all wish we could create a cute vignette like this? I'd just love to have that old ice cream parlor chair!


Looks like British Colonial decor to me.


Just a bit of lace juxtaposed with peeling windows.


A place to sit and dream while surrounded with gorgeous roses.


These are French-enameled measuring cups. Cute!!!


A beachy-type decor. I do love the colors.


I just loved the stairs in this old home. I doubt I'd ever feel safe going up and down on them. I need a handrail as I'm a klutz, but I love the look. The stone fireplace is also a plus in this house.


A way to decorate a canning car. Just put earrings on it and it's an instant vase.
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Tidbit:

The Houses of Parliament have nearly 1,200 rooms, 100 staircases, 11 courtyards, 8 bars, and 6 restaurants—none of them open to the public.
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Expanding in Social Media

We have taken the plunge, bit the bullet, made the move and jumped into some new social media avenues with both feet.  Instagram and Twitter, here we come!

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A Few Thoughts on Womanhood

My favorite instrument is the cello. I love to listen to Yo Yo Ma play. Here is a video of his music playing one of my favorite songs. He's one of the greatest musicians in the world. Enjoy while reading this post. If this doesn't touch your heart, there is no hope for you. ;-)

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Many years ago I was a die-hard feminist. No more. I actually had an epiphany and that changed my whole life. I love and appreciate men. They are as necessary as women are. I'm just a woman who loves her husband more than anything. So I'd like to post a few things about womanhood for all of you because no one else can do womanhood or mothering like a mother can. Now, I don't want to hear about men. Yes, they are absolutely special also, but we women give birth to the child. No man can do that, only women. Neither can a woman take the place of a father in the home. Men are necessary for children. Women are necessary for children. Nothing replaces a mother or father in the home.

There is great nobility in Motherhood. God planted within women something divine.

 The only way to get through this life is to laugh your way through it. You can either laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. And I sure do a lot of laughing. Crying gives me wrinkles and destroys my mascara and makeup.

The Lord uses us because of our unique personalities and differences rather than in spite of them. He needs every one of us with our blemishes and weaknesses and imperfections. Trust me, I definitely have mine, more than I'd care to have.

As you create your home, don't get distracted with a lot of things that have no meaning for you or your family. Don't dwell on your failures, but think of your successes. Have joy in your children. Have joy in your husband. Have joy in yourself. Be grateful for your journey.
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Stunning vintage cabinet. The way she decorate touches me as she has a very humble bench with a large dining table with glass on top. Some chairs are slipcovered and some aren't, just have pads on them. Everything topped off with a chandelier. Extraordinary!


I like old scroll work like this in a verdigris finish. To me it's one of the prettiest colors in the world.


A truly unique wall covering. I don't think I'd do it but she pulled it off rather well.


Who can resist pretty pink cookies in a flowered box, even if they are in a photograph?


Another French style dining room. Different chairs around the table and an old store scale for pizzazz.


I thought this was cute with the little soldiers hanging from the chandelier. Maybe it's for Christmas decorating but it would still look cute all year round.


Another cute room from one of our Swedish friends. I can tell from the flags.


Truly, for me, I'd rather have my cook top in a corner like this. That way you can work from both sides. I believe this is the ideal kitchen with the sink to the right but down a bit more from the stove. Our last house had it that way and it was perfect for me to cook.


Just a bit of whimsy for you today.


If this didn't start as a barn, you could have fooled me. It's just adorable, especially with all the vivid colors and that pool.


Greengate items. One of my favorite stores on the internet. They have the prettiest items for sale I've ever seen.


Maybe someone should coin the phrase rusticglam. (Hmmm, I think I just did!) This would be the lead photo. Very pretty.


By now, you should know I love clothes pin bags. I've made several unique froufrou-y ones for my laundry room to just hang in there along with decorated clothespins in them. Make your laundry room pretty!! You'll love being in there more.


We'd all love one of these tables in our kitchen or living room.


Simply beautiful tassels.
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Tidbit:

London's smallest house is only 3.5 feet wide and forms part of the Tyburn Convent on Hyde Park Place, where 20 nuns live. These nuns have taken a vow of silence and still pray for the souls of those who lost their lives on the "Tyburn Tree," London's main execution spot until 1783, where about fifty thousand people were executed.
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Linking up with Pink Saturday.  

Kettner

Were you able to tour the beautiful Kettner residence during the Grand Rapids Spring Parade of Homes two weeks ago?  If not, here is an opportunity to take a pictorial tour of this sprawling family home with character to spare.

Craftsman detailing and charming asymmetry on the exterior are paired with a luxurious hominess inside.  The formal entryway and living room lead into a spacious kitchen and circular dining area.  The screened porch offers additional dining and living space.  A beautiful master suite is situated at the other end of the main level.  Three bedroom suites and a large playroom are located on the top floor, while the lower level includes billiards, hearths, a refreshment bar, exercise space, a sauna and a guest bedroom.

Interiors by: DeGraaf Interiors

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